The Rise of Public Rudeness in Post-Pandemic America

Nearly five years after the COVID-19 pandemic, many Americans believe public behavior has worsened. According to a Pew Research Center survey, 47% of U.S. adults say Americans are ruder in public today than before the pandemic, with 20% stating behavior is “a lot” ruder. Meanwhile, 34% of Americans report witnessing rude behavior “often” or “almost always” when out in public.
How Has Public Behavior Changed Since the Pandemic?
The pandemic significantly altered social norms, from mask mandates to social distancing. These shifts, combined with heightened stress and political tensions, may have contributed to a rise in public rudeness. Some key findings from the survey include:
- 77% of adults say it is “rarely or never acceptable” to smoke around others in public.
- 74% disapprove of taking a photo or video of someone without consent.
- 69% say bringing children into adult-only spaces (like upscale restaurants) is inappropriate.
- 66% believe displaying swear words in public (e.g., on clothing) is unacceptable.
- 65% disapprove of cursing aloud in public.
Generational and Demographic Differences in Etiquette Views
The study also found age-based and demographic differences in perceptions of rudeness:
- Older adults (65+) are more likely to find behaviors like cursing or wearing offensive clothing unacceptable.
- Women tend to be more disapproving than men of behaviors like taking photos of strangers without permission.
- Higher-income individuals are more likely to say that playing music loudly or wearing headphones while speaking to someone is rude.
Is It Still Easy to Know What’s Appropriate in Public?
Despite the perceived decline in civility, 84% of Americans say it is still “very” or “somewhat easy” to determine what is appropriate behavior in public. However, lower-income individuals and younger adults are less likely to find social norms clear.
Why Are People Ruder? Experts Weigh In
Psychologists and sociologists suggest several reasons for increased public rudeness post-pandemic:
- Increased stress levels due to economic instability and political divisions.
- Social isolation effects, reducing empathy and patience.
- Shifted social norms, with technology and remote work affecting face-to-face interactions.
Can Public Etiquette Improve?
As society continues adapting post-pandemic, experts believe awareness and social reintegration could help rebuild public civility. Encouraging respect in daily interactions and reinforcing social etiquette from an early age may be key to reversing the trend of increasing rudeness.


